Keeping the Magic Alive

It’s that time of year again…

To be honest, I’ve been reflecting a lot on what this time of year means to me. Christmas has always been my favorite holiday, and there are so many traditions I’ve clung to from my childhood:

-Hand sewn stockings for my three girls, just like my mom did for me, and her mother did for her, and so on as far back as anyone can remember.

-Making my grandma’s cheeseballs for my girls like she used to make for all her kids and grandkids at Christmas time.

-Watching “A Christmas Story” all day Christmas Eve and Christmas Day!

-Going out to look at Christmas lights before bed on Christmas Eve.

This year, I stopped to consider why this day means so much to me, and why I go out of my way to keep up the traditions I love. The answer is simple.

It’s the MAGIC…

My dad always went out of his way to make Christmas a magical day. I remember as a child hearing Santa’s boots on the dining room tile; his jingle bells rolling off the roof; his bag landing on the living room floor. Every Christmas Eve and Christmas morning was a time of magic and awe. I treasure those memories and draw upon the joy they brought me whenever I feel down.

Now as a mom to my own children, I seek out ways to keep the magic alive for my three girls. My children are an oddity among their peers because they are still believers even though they are teenagers. They still get up every morning in December to seek out their Elf on the Shelf. They write letters to Santa and visit him. This Christmas Eve they will set out cookies and milk for the man with the bag and then anxiously await Christmas morning to see what was left in their stocking.

It’s all about the magic…

Now, hear me out… I’m 99% sure my girls know what’s up. I hear it in the inflection of their voice when they make comments like, “I wonder where Oscar will be hiding in the morning?” or “I sure hope Santa remembers I don’t like peppermint.” They know. Just like I knew my dad was responsible for the magic of Christmas by the time I was my girls’ ages, I know my girls have sorted out that I am the source of theirs.

So why do I keep up the show? Why not come clean and finally get the credit I deserve for the gifts under the tree each year?

Because of the magic…

My girls asked me several years ago about Santa. Just like every other kid eventually does, they asked me if he was real.

My answer?

I didn’t give one. Instead, I looked my girls in the eyes and asked them, “Do you enjoy the magic of Christmas?”

“Yes!” They replied wholeheartedly.

“Then keep enjoying the magic,” I said. “Because one day you will be adults, and once you become an adult, the magic dwindles away. So enjoy it. Embrace it. You’re only a child for a short time. You have plenty of time to be an adult later.”

They’ve never asked again, because they love the magic.

By the time I was twelve, I knew my dad made Christmas magical. He was the man behind the red suit and the beard. But I never questioned him because to say it out loud was to steal away the magic of the season. I’ve never been upset that he didn’t tell me “the truth”. I love him all the more for keeping the magic alive for me for as long as possible. I honestly believe one of the reasons I love to write stories is because of the magic my dad created for me when I was young.

My heart’s desire is to pass this gift along to my girls. I hope to keep the magic alive for them as long as possible; or for as long as they need/want it. There will be plenty of reality waiting for them when they enter the world of adulthood. For now, I will continue to do all I can to give them the magic and awe that comes with childhood.

24 thoughts on “Keeping the Magic Alive

  1. The Eclectic Contrarian December 16, 2019 — 10:09 am

    So magical Christmas’s come from pixie dust and exhausted moms lol!

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    1. Yes, they can! But the magic of Christmas can come from anyone who loves magic and believes it’s worth keeping alive!

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      1. The Eclectic Contrarian December 16, 2019 — 10:16 am

        It’s awesome to think your daughters are going to be doing this exact thing some day!

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      2. I certainly hope so. I want to believe they will never be upset that I didn’t “tell the truth” but that I’ve worked hard to make their childhood as magical as possible. It’s what my dad did for me, so I’m hoping they will feel inspired to do the same.

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      3. The Eclectic Contrarian December 16, 2019 — 10:19 am

        I think they know and I think they really appreciate what you’re doing!

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      4. The Eclectic Contrarian December 16, 2019 — 10:27 am

        You’re welcome!

        Get back to writing now lol!

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      5. Haha! I wish. I’m teaching the girls Algebra. I’m looking forward to the two week break, lol.

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      6. The Eclectic Contrarian December 16, 2019 — 10:29 am

        🤦‍♂️algebra…. the alphabet and numbers are oil and water and have no business together…

        Ok I’ll let you get back to teaching 😁

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      7. I agree! Although I find I understand it better now than I did in high school lol.

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      8. The Eclectic Contrarian December 16, 2019 — 10:34 am

        My brain put up a permanent mental block…

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      9. Haha! I understand. If you ever want to give it another go, I can recommend I good program. I’d be lost without Teaching Textbooks.

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      10. The Eclectic Contrarian December 16, 2019 — 11:21 am

        Thankfully I haven’t had to use it lol!

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  2. This was the most beautiful post and I absolutely loved it, so thank you for sharing. I think it’s so wonderful the connection you have with your girls and the idea of Christmas for you all – an unspoken secret between yourselves. So magical .xx

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    1. Thank you! I’m so glad you enjoyed it. I do love my girls so much. I feel incredibly lucky to be chosen to be their mom. 💙💙💙

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  3. I love this post so much as it’s so beautiful 💖 I really understand you and feel the same way. I still love Christmas but it was much more magical when I was a child ✨🎄 The Christmas spirit will forever be in our hearts. In The Netherlands we also celebrated Sinterklaas which comes earlier and I remember a girl telling me he wasn’t real. I couldn’t believe it and I cried. It’s so much better to keep this magic alive. My parents still do the same even though we are grown ups. I love it ❤️

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    1. I’m so happy to hear you love Christmas too! The magic is such a beautiful experience! I truly hope my girls will grow and look back on their childhood and feel loved because of the traditions we have shared. 💖💖
      Merry Christmas sweet friend!!!

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      1. You are so right. I’m sure your girls are going to be blessed and think back and be happy of the beautiful traditions. Merry Christmas lovely 😘🎄🤶🎅

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      2. Thanks so much for your encouraging words. I always enjoy sharing thoughts with you! 💖💖

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  4. Hand-sewn socks??? How marvelous! I love that you put so much effort into maintaining the magic of Christmas.

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    1. Thank you! It brings me a lot of joy! 💚❤️💚❤️

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  5. The Eclectic Contrarian January 9, 2020 — 8:41 am

    Haven’t heard from you in a while and I bet you’re really busy but just wanted to check up on you.

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    1. Hey! Thanks! Yeah Christmas was busy and then I came down with a respiratory infection. I’m just now bouncing back. I’m hoping to get back to posting this weekend. Thanks so much for checking on me. I really appreciate it! That means a lot! 💙

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      1. The Eclectic Contrarian January 9, 2020 — 8:58 am

        I’ve had those…. 😕

        Glad to hear from you!

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